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Zodiac Him vs Her: Libra

This past year, I’ve given my views on who might be your best zodiac match. Now that you know who you might be compatible with, I will share my views on what your best match is looking for in a partner. So, to all the Aquarius, Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius, Aries and Leo (Libra’s best matches), today I will share my views on both what the Libra man and the Libra woman looks for in a relationship. Because I am a Libra woman, I can truly say, I know what a Libra woman looks for in relationships.

Let’s start with the Libra man:

What a Libra man wants in a relationship

The Libra man is very popular amongst others because he is charming, harmonious and can relate to people on their level. A characteristic of Libra is the ability to see the world through the eyes of others. Libra men do this to seduce their potential mate and it always works. He always seems to be on the search for the perfect person, unfortunately, that does not exist. The closest thing a perfect mate could do is appreciate and be in awe of his stardom. Look up to him, admire him, he is a sucker for flattery. Do not nag or pick on his inability to make a decision, it will simply put pressure on him. You make the decision if he cannot, he will happily go along with you and deep inside, will be happy that you took control.” -

To get an idea of the type of personality a Libra man might have, a few celebrity Libra males are Will Smith, Michael Douglas, Hugh Jackman, Michele Morrone and Bruce Springsteen.

Because Libra is an air sign, they are most compatible with other air signs and fire signs. What creates a foundation with a Libra man is if you are both on the same wavelength. Discovering his mind would be a step in the right direction.

For a Libra man, it’s not all about sex. His top priority is, first building a friendship and once he thinks you’re the one, that inner curiosity will spark that friendship into something more serious.

Libra males love to be appreciated, especially when you notice his clean and artful home décor. He is very stylish and looks for a partner who will compliment him in every way, especially aesthetically. He values a partner who is well put together, healthy, sophisticated, smart, social, conversationist and fair. Above all, honesty and loyalty are the things which will win his heart.

Libras are all about love! If a Libra man feels he is on the same wavelength as you, and you appreciate everything about him, the relationship will blossom into a successful relationship.

What Libra Women Want in a relationship

The Libra woman is attracted to mystery. If you want to attract a Libra woman, keep her guessing. If you keep her guessing, it will leave her coming back for more. Don’t be aggressive, and it is definitely okay to flirt with her, but don’t overdo it. Be clean, always look nice, and be someone that she would want to take home to her family.”

To get an idea of the type of personality a Libra woman might have, a few celebrity Libra females are Cardi B, Hilary Duff, Catherine Zeta-Jones, Gwen Stefani, Kim Kardashian and Kate Winslet.

Libra, ruled by Venus, loves everything about love and romance! Libra's airy nature elevates love and romance to heights that are hard for any mortal man to match. That being said, and being objective, a Libra woman will respond to a partner who understands her nature and who is honest, real and sincere.

Libra women are all about beauty and elegance, so when planning a date with a Libra woman, keep in mind, she will prefer an elegant restaurant over the buffet dinner. Ensure to shower her with attention as she's one woman who expects it, but be sure to not overdo it, as too much attention will turn her off. She likes space to breath, but expects you to be there when she’s ready for you.

Because the Libra woman has style and grace, she expects you to look good as well. Being well-groomed is the upmost important trait a Libra woman looks for in a mate. If you show up in a ball cap and sweats, even if you are working out in a gym, the Libra woman will be a turned off. Libra women love "pretty boys who smell delicious" but will appreciate a manly man who exudes inner confidence and takes care of himself.

Besides her beauty and grace, the Libra woman has a beautiful mind. When on a date, she appreciates a good conversation, which flows easily. She loves to discuss different topics. She will be able to see all sides of a discussion and comment accordingly, with a detached perspective. She thrives on having debates so will appreciate her date to be real with their opinions. Once you've experienced a debate with the Libra woman, you'll appreciate the way she amalgamates information to get her point across. Beware, if the ease of conversation isn't there, it will be difficult to find connection in other areas, like the bedroom.

Libra women take a long time to decide whether you are the one. She prefers to build a friendship first to see if you are compatible and if there is chemistry. Even if the Libra woman is interested, she will not share that information with you until she’s absolutely sure you’re the one. So, remember, good things come to those who wait. If you see potential and feel the chemistry with your Libra lady, enjoy it, have fun with it and hang in there as she wouldn’t be wasting your time or hers unless she feels a connection.

According to, “the Libra woman is often put on a pedestal, admired from afar like a work of art”. Although this might be true, to win a Libra woman’s heart, you will need to treat her as an equal in all ways and appreciate her intellect and values.

Despite being a natural in partnership, a Libra woman has her own unique vision of what a relationship should look like. Libra women want a partner who will put her on a pedestal, who can be real, faithful, vulnerable, someone who can enhance her life. Like I mentioned at the beginning, Libra's airy nature elevates love and romance to heights that are hard for any mortal man to match, so keep this in mind when you are contemplating asking a Libra woman for a date.

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